Supporting an older adult living with obesity starts with the person, not assumptions about their body size. Ask which daily tasks are difficult, what they want to keep doing independently and what kind of help they would welcome.
Agree on meaningful goals
Listen to the person’s main concerns, such as comfort or getting around the home. Weight loss is not the right goal for every older adult. A clinician can consider health conditions, medicines, function and personal preferences when discussing weight management.
Avoid blame or pressure. Choose respectful language and ask permission before starting a conversation about weight.
Plan movement and nutrition together
Discuss activity that fits the person’s abilities and health. Set manageable goals and review barriers with the care team. If a weight-loss plan is appropriate, a registered dietitian can help balance food intake with protein and other nutritional needs.
Restricting calories without an appropriate plan can contribute to muscle loss in older adults. Ask how nutrition and physical activity can support strength while working toward agreed goals.
Review medicines and health concerns
Ask a clinician or pharmacist to review medicines and supplements, including possible interactions. Weight-management treatments need individualized assessment. Raise pain, appetite changes or other concerns with the appropriate healthcare professional rather than assuming weight explains every symptom.
Make everyday activities more comfortable
Ask whether comfortable clothing or help with fastenings would make dressing easier. Offer assistance with privacy and permission, while allowing time for the tasks the person can do themselves.
Keep walking routes clear, improve lighting and place frequently used items within reach. Use stable furniture that fits the person comfortably. Ask a qualified professional about appropriate equipment or home adaptations when needed.
Agree who will provide each type of help. Revisit the plan as needs change, keeping the older adult involved in decisions about their care.